When the Music is Trapped Inside You: A New Path Out of Stage Fright
- reginagleim
- May 19
- 5 min read
Understanding Stage Fright: The Science Behind It and How to Use It as a Resource
"I'm just not a stage person." How often have you heard this phrase – or perhaps said it yourself? Trembling hands, rapid heartbeat, sweaty palms before a performance: For many people, these symptoms are the ultimate proof that they're not made for the stage. But what if exactly the opposite is true? What if these physical reactions aren't signs of weakness, but rather a highly developed preparation of your body for something meaningful?
The surprising truth: Stage fright is the norm, not the exception
Science paints a clear picture: stage fright is an almost universal phenomenon. Let's look at the specific research:
What the studies say:
The Harvard Study (2022):
77% of all people experience performance anxiety
Only 3% report never feeling nervous before performances
The intensity of symptoms is independent of experience
The Kenny Study of Professional Orchestras (2019):
70% of professional musicians suffer from performance anxiety
32% take beta blockers before performances
Interestingly: The anxiety usually doesn't correlate with the quality of the performance
Royal Academy of Music Study (2020):
Moderate stage fright improves performance in 61% of participants
Complete absence of nervousness led to less convincing performances
The "optimal excitement" is about 70% of the individual's maximum
Prominent voices on stage fright:
From the music world:
Adele had to cancel two concerts in 2017 due to extreme stage fright. She reports panic attacks before performances and has said about it: "I have great fear of the audience. But the fear is part of who I am and what I do."
Glenn Gould: "There's a certain point where fear stops being paralyzing and starts being stimulating. That's the point where great performances emerge."
From the world of speech and presentation:
Gandhi suffered from such severe speech anxiety that he had to leave the courtroom during his first case as a lawyer. He developed into the most influential speaker of his time.
A surprising research finding: Studies at music conservatories have even shown that artists with moderate stage fright often deliver better performances than those without any nervousness. The reason? The increased activation of the body can, when properly used, lead to higher precision, better concentration, and more expressiveness.
What makes these examples so valuable?
The stories of these successful individuals show us three important things:
Authenticity wins
Many of the mentioned individuals make their nervousness part of their performance
They don't hide their humanity, but use it
Development is possible
None of these people were confident from the beginning
All have actively worked on their relationship with the stage
Fear and success are not mutually exclusive
The presence of stage fright doesn't prevent a successful career
It often even becomes the driving force for better preparation
Stage fright is not a weakness, but a shared human experience Successful performance and stage fright are not mutually exclusive, and the differences lie not in "whether" but in "how" to deal with it.

The Evolutionary Perspective: Why We React the Way We Do
To truly understand stage fright, we need to take a journey into our evolutionary past. Contrary to what is often assumed, in our prehistory, having all eyes on us didn't automatically mean death. The truth is more complex and fascinating:
Our ancestors were absolute masters of social coordination. The survival of the group depended on how well its members could work together. In this context, social evaluation by the group was vital for survival. A failed "performance" in front of the group could lead to diminished status or even social exclusion – and that could indeed be life-threatening.
Of course, the reasons for one's fears can be more complex and should be considered individually, but understanding this perspective can already bring relief.
The Neurobiology of Stage Fright
So what happens in our body when we step onto a stage?
The Amygdala Response
Our "danger radar," the amygdala, recognizes the situation as potentially threatening
It triggers a cascade of physical reactions
This happens before our conscious thinking can even begin
The Stress Hormone Cascade
Adrenaline is released
Cortisol levels rise
The autonomic nervous system switches to activation mode
The Physical Changes
Increased heartbeat (more oxygen for better performance)
Sweating (optimal temperature regulation)
Trembling (energy provision for quick reactions)
Shallow breathing (preparation for rapid actions)
Individual Differences: Why Does Everyone React Differently?
The fascinating question: Why do some people seem completely relaxed on stage, while others struggle with intense fear? Research shows several factors:
Genetic Factors
About 20% of people are genetically "highly sensitive"
These people perceive stimuli more intensely and process them more deeply
This can be both a challenge and a special strength
Early Imprinting and Experiences
First performance experiences shape our nervous system sustainably
Positive early experiences create a more resilient system
Negative experiences can lead to stronger fear responses
Neural Plasticity
Our brain is malleable
Frequent positive stage experiences can build new neural networks
The seemingly "fearless" have often simply had more positive conditioning
The good news: Our nervous system is plastic and capable of learning. So we can do something about it.
The Path to Transformation: From Fear to Resource
Stage fright is not a predetermined fate. From my experience, here is the path to transformation:
Understanding and Accepting
Recognize the intelligence of your physical reactions
Understand that excitement and fear are not the same
Learn to distinguish between real danger signals and activation
Regulating the Nervous System Short-term strategies:
Conscious breathing (4-7-8 technique)
Power posing (2 minutes before the performance)
Seeking social connection
Of course, we also need long-term strategies. More on that at the end of the article!
Conclusion: A New and Effective Way
Transforming stage fright doesn't mean getting rid of it completely. Although we should of course also work on reducing the fear. For many years I was completely blocked, had panic attacks and couldn't show myself at all. Today I often actually feel much more relaxation on stage or often also a joyful excitement that I then use. So it is possible.
It's more about:
Using the energy constructively
Building a new relationship with performances
Recognizing your own sensitivity as a strength
Being authentic and present
When we begin to understand stage fright not as a character flaw but as a physical state, a path to real transformation opens up. It's not about "having no fear," but about dealing constructively with our natural activation and even using it as a resource.
The Next Step: From Theory to Practice
While this article has given you the scientific foundations and a new understanding of stage fright, the crucial step now is practical implementation. How do you develop your individual strategies? How do you build new neural networks? How do you transform your personal relationship with the stage?
In my free masterclass, I guide you step by step through this transformation process. You'll learn how to really solve stage fright and all related issues, allowing you to find your completely free and authentic expression.
Your Invitation to Change
If you're ready not just to understand your stage fright but to actively transform it, now is the right time to act.
Secure your place in the masterclass now and start your personal transformation journey. I wish for you that your musical expression unfolds more and more and that you can truly enjoy your stage performances!
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